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text | un: OKUMURA1
heya i have a quick question for you all if that's ok
oh i almost forgot. i'm okumura! you can just call me rin though if thats easier for you to say
anyway do any of ya have siblings? or maybe someone ya see as one...i woulda just asked my roommate and kept it at that but she doesn't have any
what do ya do if ya get in a fight with em? not a little fight but like a big one
i think i might learn something by asking other siblings and people for what they'd do. maybe it's weird to ask complete strangers this but i just wanna make things better with my brother when he gets up and maybe some of ya have better ideas than me
since nothing i've tried has worked out
in return i can uhhhh give ya some advice about your siblings too! or if ya just feel like talking about em if ya miss em i understand
thanks for readin!
oh i almost forgot. i'm okumura! you can just call me rin though if thats easier for you to say
anyway do any of ya have siblings? or maybe someone ya see as one...i woulda just asked my roommate and kept it at that but she doesn't have any
what do ya do if ya get in a fight with em? not a little fight but like a big one
i think i might learn something by asking other siblings and people for what they'd do. maybe it's weird to ask complete strangers this but i just wanna make things better with my brother when he gets up and maybe some of ya have better ideas than me
since nothing i've tried has worked out
in return i can uhhhh give ya some advice about your siblings too! or if ya just feel like talking about em if ya miss em i understand
thanks for readin!
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but he got really mad when i said i didn't wanna know any more
he's been acting pretty different than usual so the whole fight really worried me
and now that we're here i can't even talk to him
it was just unlucky timing
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I don't think there's anything you can do but wait until he wakes up. Then you can have a civil talk about why he wants to know more about your past, and you don't.
Of course I don't really know the details, but this definitely isn't your fault.
You both have the right to make your own decisions on how much you want to know. He shouldn't get mad about that.
But if you talk to him, and you know what about that made him so angry, I'm sure that you can work out your differences.
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i'm the big brother so i want to understand and help him but i can't do that if he pushes away
so things between us keep getting worse ya know!
yer really smart about things like this aren't ya? you have a little sibling too?
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It's true that you can't solve an argument one-sidedly. If all else fails, maybe try to use a mutual friend for a mediator?
No - I'm sorry if I acted like an expert! I was just saying what I thought... I don't even have siblings.
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ya totally sound like it
ya sound like the wise middle kid type~ always fixing conflicts
maybe you can mediate for us!!
[ He's only joking, but it sure would be nice to have someone so level headed around. ]
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If you want.
I really don't know if I'm any good at that, but if you don't have anyone better, then I will definitely give it my best shot!
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whether or not ya actually have to mediate for us you should definitely meet my brother sometime
when he's acting less weird
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I hope he wakes up soon.
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oh! whats yer name?
lemme know so i can talk to ya again sometime
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